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I love this post. I'd saved it, and it resonates, just as most of your writing does. I just read yet agan that if we're traumatized or not mirrored by our caregivers when we're young, it rearranges our nervous system. Of course as you know, I believe in recovery. Yoga's been a great way for me to take loving care of my body mind and soul. I know that's true for you too!

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Yes to all you've stated so well, especially about emotions in our bodies. My New Moon Eclipse mantra, "Softening, Slowing, Trusting..." matches your "To Be" list 🥰

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I am so pleased you reposted this Ilona as otherwise I would have missed it. Such an interested read and I can relate to so much of it - I grind my teeth too and have TMJ disorder due to stress clenching and I haven't found an answer yet either!

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Do you do it when you're driving? It doesn't just happen during sleep, so being mindful during the day helps too!

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Oh, all the time! I must have been clenching my jaw all day as it's really aching this evening. I did have a guard made by the hospital but it makes my gums sore so I don't wear it. Perhaps I'll give it another go, second time lucky!

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One word to this question of ongoing stress/anxiety patterns in our bodies: microdosing?

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Have never tried it!

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Thanks for this! My emotion want list is simplicity, hopefulness, positivity - it seems impossible to achieve from here, but baby steps. Baby steps.

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Awareness is the first step! Thanks for your beautiful comment, Fräulein!

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Aligned with the theme of this essay:

RADICAL ACCEPTANCE/ EMBRACING YOUR LIFE WITH THE HEART OF A BUDDHA

Tara Brach, Ph.D.

And, no, you don't have to be a Buddhist to enjoy and appreciate the book...

Bookmarked your podcast to check out later! Thank you🙏🏽

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Yes, I love Tara Brach! I have not read her book. Thanks for the recommendation. You are right, Mark. Mind, body, and heart need to be in alignment. Thanks for pulling it all together for us.

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