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Neera Mahajan's avatar

This was s such a beautiful piece Ilona. We all have felt mixed emotions like these. Sometimes I feel guilty to be blissfully happy when there are so many people in the world are suffering. Not only the wide world but my little world. But then I try to think of little ways to help them. Sometimes it is just listening to them. Other time just sending a silent prayer towards them is how I relieve myself of the guilty feeling.

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Ilona Goanos's avatar

Yes, I love the idea of sending a silent prayer, Neera. We all get our share of suffering, but some it seems get more than others. Gratitude is a tool you can use to help the guilty feelings, too.

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Carol's avatar

Very nicely said. Some people just avoid those who are going thru a difficult time unfortunately.

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Ilona Goanos's avatar

I think they just don't have the tools to cope.

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Carol's avatar

Probably not - as one of your other commenters said, glad to know yoga helps!

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Mary Waryga's avatar

Words of wisdom

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Ilona Goanos's avatar

Thanks, Mary!

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Leah's avatar

Compassionate witnessing is such a powerful aspect of connection and healing. I hadn’t thought of yoga poses as resilience building, though I practice several times a week. Thanks for that reframing. 😊

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Ilona Goanos's avatar

The little things we do all add up :)

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