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The $40 Dress, the $50 Hem, and the Return of Handarbeit
Why We Need to Start Valuing the Work of Our Hands
Jul 22
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Ilona Goanos
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My Boobs, the Patriarchy, and a $5.99 Shirt
Because getting dressed is never just about getting dressed — ask my Nippies.
Jul 8
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Ilona Goanos
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June 2026
Live with Ilona Goanos
A recording from Ilona Goanos's live video
Jun 23
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Ilona Goanos
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Shaun Chavis
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45:50
Red
On clothes, invisibility, and the dress that knew me first.
Jun 17
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Ilona Goanos
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She Poured and Poured Until Only a Drop Was Left
What Qigong taught me about the energy I'd been giving away for decades.
Jun 3
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Ilona Goanos
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May 2026
Where Good Girls Go to Die
On planning, burdens, and the beach I’m dying on.
May 27
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Ilona Goanos
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Live with Ilona Goanos & Death Doula Kacie
A recording from Ilona Goanos's live video
May 19
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Ilona Goanos
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Death Doula Kacie
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2
46:57
He Left Before I Was Ready
No one tells you what dying looks like.
May 13
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Ilona Goanos
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April 2026
What I Took for the Pain
The church had all the answers. I was relieved not to need my own.
Apr 29
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Ilona Goanos
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Live with Ilona Goanos & Mary McGreevy
A recording from Ilona Goanos's live video
Apr 21
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Ilona Goanos
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Mary McGreevy
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49:54
5 Tips from the Living
What I want my kids to know while I'm still here to say it.
Apr 15
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Ilona Goanos
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No Kings. Not in Her 94 Years.
The honking was enthusiastic. The work is harder.
Apr 1
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Ilona Goanos
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